The Parent Pivot: What to Do When Your Young Adult Is in Psychological Distress

For parents who feel overwhelmed, worried, or unsure how to help a young adult in psychological distress, this book offers compassionate, practical guidance. Emerging adulthood (ages 18–29) is a vulnerable period often marked by anxiety, depression, substance misuse, internet misuse, and risky behaviors. As children enter adulthood, the parenting role must shift. Instead of being a full-time “caretaker,” parents must learn to “pivot” into roles such as “coach,” “wise counsel,” or “compeer”―and sometimes return to the “caretaker” role when distress intensifies. The Parent Pivot provides clear guidance, support, and realistic hope for navigating this stage. Written by psychologists with decades of experience supporting emerging adults and their families, the book offers tools and language parents can begin using right away.